This past Saturday, Sir, two of O/our younger friends, and i went to an area Renaissance Festival to enjoy a day filled with costumes, good food, and great shows. While i did get all that, i also got a bit of insight into how some people view collars.
One of the young girls that came with U/us, who i will refer to as "J", is a girl that W/we've known for a while. She's fun and bubbly, and just a little bit crazy. She describes herself as a "animefan/raver", and one of the pieces of jewelry she wears constantly is a collar with an "O" ring, or a ring for a lead. That day, she brought her lead with her, attached it to her collar, and gave the lead end of it to her friend, from here on known as "L", that came with us. Naturally, by this point, Sir and i (or i, at least) assumed that she would be acting at least a bit submissive.
During the course of the day, J dragged her friend L all over the park, and even stated, rather frequently that "even though i (she) am wearing the collar, it doesn't mean i'm the Pet". The first time i heard her say this, i was startled. my experience with people wearing collars has, until now, been limited to those in the bdsm scene; none of my friends or aquaintances wear collars for fun. i know, of course, that some dominants like to wear collars as jewelry, but i've never seen one with an "O" ring in it.
The worst bit, to me in any case, was the complete indifference she showed with the collar and lead she chose to wear. i had been lusting after it all day; i havent had a collar and lead to wear since they got lost in a move, and i've missed it terribly. Sir and i joked several times about "taking the collar from them and showing them how it's done", and i wish we could have. They were sending people all over the park mixed signals, and they were both being talked about, according to one of the workers.
Eventually, W/we split up from them, and i was able to enjoy just being with Sir. W/we didn't know any of the people around us, and as such, W/we were able to act as the Dominant/submissive that W/we'd wanted to all day. i feel we put the girls to shame, but that may just be my pride showing. Sir will have to tell you all for sure.
This is turning into a much longer post than my previous two, but there is one thing left to say; Sir bought me a new collar! its green and beautiful, with a celtic spiral design holding the "D" ring in place, and i love wearing it. Sir has given me instructions not to take it off unless i have to work, the reason for which i will probably explain in my next post. for now, i have to cut this short. i would like to end with a question, just as i did last time though.
Anyone, Dom/me or sub, please tell me; how does it make you feel when you see others wearing collars and sending everyone mixed signals, as i described above.
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